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Many people find it frustrating, time-consuming, and just overall – not that efficient.

With social networking sites becoming a rage, online dating has been one major phenomenon that has caught the trend. How far can we really go with someone we meet online? Though, its demerits rise above on the balance beam.

I tell all my single girlfriends to give online dating a try. Your inbox will fill with notes from 19-year-olds in the ‘burbs, 40-somethings who find your taste in music “refreshing,” addled idiots writing “id fck u,” and a handful of age-appropriate, nice-looking guys who can string some sentences together and like to cook.

These things definitely lack in dating online, therefore making it a bad idea. May Get Awkward In Person This is one strange thing about online dating.

The space we share with someone through social networking is in great contrast to that we share with people in the physical world. What we see is not enough since many of it can be mere illusions.

But after one serious heartbreak and hundreds of pounds spent on subscription fees, love still eludes her.‘In many ways, internet dating is a great way to meet people, but it’s such a whirlwind of highs and lows,’ she says.

‘I’ve met some lovely men, but I’ve also met many who lied about themselves and their intentions.’Her experiences are mirrored by many women, who find that internet dating is great if you want a casual fling, but not for anything longer lasting because there are so many dishonest men seeking cheap thrills.

I did meet my girlfriend online, but after a year of painful struggle, meaning hardly any dates despite being educated, employed, and reasonably attractive.

Friends of both genders tell that their experiences have been hard in different ways.

Even if you do, ofcourse you first interact online and then meet. For, in these bonds, no real meetings and interactions takes place at the primary level. We bond when we meet someone over a period of time, spend time talking together and being with each other in person. You may be very greatly bonded with someone you have hardly met. It involves not just emotional but also physical, mental and spiritual space.

Until you are physically comfortable, mentally bonded, and psychologically understand each other, a relationship cannot go a long way.

My guy friends (also educated, attractive) complain that they get no responses and female acquaintences tell me that they get so many emails, etc, that they don’t know where to start-and often do nothing.

They don’t have time to “date around” several times a week.(actually neither would I). Women, being more vulnerable than men, are more hesitant to date online, so you get a situation where there’s a lot more men than women.

I tell all my single guy friends to watch out for online dating.

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